"Wise men say only fools rush in
But I can't help falling in love with you
Shall I stay
Would it be a sin
If I can't help falling in love with you
Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
So take my hand, and take my whole life too
Cause I can't help falling in love with you
Like a river flows so surely to the sea
Oh my darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
So won't you please take my hand, and take my whole life too
Cause I can't help falling in love, in love with you
Cause I can't help falling in love, falling in love,
I keep falling in love with you"
These images are from two years ago, at the beginning of my photography journey. This blog post is also belated, as my grandparents have just celebrated their 52nd anniversary. This shoot was to commemorate their 50th.
They were High school sweethearts.
My grandmother will be the first to tell you, that it wasn't always easy, but it was always worth it. They've had as many ups and downs as anybody.
Right before their 50th class reunion, my grandmother was diagnosed with lung cancer. She has always been known for her fiery red hair, it's practically her trademark. Cancer treatment took it from her for awhile- in these pictures she has a fabulous wig on ;) (Sorry for spilling the beans Grammy!) Despite all the trial and tribulations that cancer brought, I think it solidified the absolute joy in a 50 year marriage. My grandfather was by her side through everything. Doing things he never thought he'd do. Loving her and taking care of her, no matter what. After all, isn't that what it's all about?
Sometimes love stories aren't magical, or whimsical. Sometimes they're hard, and messy and imperfect. I think we forget that sometimes. A lot of us will never make it to a 50th, because things get in the way- change our views of what marriage should be. We forget the strength that comes from sacrifice. We forget the commitment that comes from time. We forget this part- in these pictures. The grow old with you part.
Happy 52nd Anniversary Grammy and Pop-pop!